爸爸帶小孩的好處 – Home with dada

最近在網路上流傳一段影片，是有關於一位爸爸帶小孩子的影片。也因為最近阿德也即將成為新手爸爸，對於這種小孩子的教養問題，都有密切注意。尤其老婆又是醫學體系出身，也說爸爸帶小孩子其實是有很多好處的。所以就把這個影片很仔細的看了三次，也參考了國外的文章，做一些些分享。如下。有興趣的朋友可以自行參閱。

Home with dada參考資料

Every mom I know, myself included, at some point or another comes to the same sad, inevitable conclusion: Dads are more fun. I know I’m making a sweeping generalization here, but if you’ve ever left your toddler at home with daddy for an afternoon and walked in the door to find your little one and your husband napping contentedly on the couch in the middle of the biggest mess of toys and Cheerios and crayons imaginable … well, you know what I’m talking about….More at Home With Dada – The Stir by CafeMom

In the video, Tomeoni and Xavier can be seen playing in the living room — multicolored “cars, blocks and balls” spilling out of the boy’s toy box and tumbling, scattered here and there, across the floor. The pair can also be seen sharing tender moments throughout the clip — a giggle here, a snuggle there; moments that Tomeoni says are what he hoped to share with his wife, Stephanie….More at Emio Tomeoni Time-Lapse Video: Kansas City Dad’s ‘Home With Dada’ Clip Goes Viral On YouTube (VIDEO)

Home with dada – time lapse

影片名稱: Home with dada – time lapse
爸爸: Emio Tomeoni (當時30歲)
孩子: Xavier(當時21個月)
背景 : 媽媽去上班的時候，爸爸和孩子遊戲的過程。午餐是 turkey hot dogs 和 apple sauce，因為衣服沾上午餐，所以才會脫掉衣服。整個客廳就像是戰場一樣，充斥各種玩具，後來一通電話，讓大人和小孩努力的清理玩具戰場。

看完之後，真的覺得跟爸爸帶小孩和一般媽媽帶孩子的方式有很大的差異。一般來說，如果是媽媽帶孩子的話，通常會比較靜態，不會玩的這麼瘋。剛好，阿德老婆家裡目前也有一個約兩歲的小孩，當她玩的越來越瘋的時候，很快的就會被制止，常見的一句話就是” 不行/ 不可以”。反而爸爸帶的方式，就會跟她們一起玩。為了更瞭解爸爸帶孩子的好處，阿德繼續深入的找尋相關資料。